Is the indifference feigned, then? If Bob has spent time enough with him to know when Mark means a thing or not. Or is his wish to understand the other man more scientific than genuine affection?
The indifference is not feigned. Bob just doesn't feel anything strongly about Mark. Bob means to understand him in order to be a better friend. It's possible that his scientific inquiry into Mark's character can lead to affection, but Bob isn't a cruel person to begin with.
If he has no interest beyond working out the inner machinations of a person that genuinely wants to be his friend? Why try? It's cruel, and it will only hurt Mark in the end.
( It makes sense to a man who went off the rails and left his only friends behind rather than drag them down with him. It's very black and white. )
[ wow ... all this time, has she been the baddie? is mark owed an apology? asking for a friend. ]
I see. You think Bob needs to make an effort, and meet Mark where he wants to in this situation, or otherwise make it plain to Mark that he no longer wishes him to be his friend. Is that correct?
Doubtful. Both of them do not care about how they are perceived to begin with by other people; they are rather stubborn, actually.
But it's possible Bob and Mark don't know each other as well as they think they do, and therefore, are creating difficult rules for each other to 'become friends'. Does that make sense? What do you think?
If they don't care what anyone else thinks, and if they both want it, and if nothing detrimental will happen because of it, then why waste time with pointless hoops? Just be friends.
[ ah, how terrible ... rover sits up from her chair to try and see where he is, but everyone's tall, also her seatmate is busy torturing people. she'll have to figure out something else. ]
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( This would probably be much easier if he understood any of the players or the motivations going on, but he'll play along for now. )
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What makes Bob an ass in this situation?
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( It makes sense to a man who went off the rails and left his only friends behind rather than drag them down with him. It's very black and white. )
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I see. You think Bob needs to make an effort, and meet Mark where he wants to in this situation, or otherwise make it plain to Mark that he no longer wishes him to be his friend. Is that correct?
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Well.
What does Bob actually want? Scientific discovery? Or a friend?
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besides, it's a reasonable question. what does she want from the experience? she hadn't exactly been quite honest about that either. ]
Bob wants a friend.
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Is it the fear of what other people think?
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But it's possible Bob and Mark don't know each other as well as they think they do, and therefore, are creating difficult rules for each other to 'become friends'. Does that make sense? What do you think?
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( Alas. )
If they don't care what anyone else thinks, and if they both want it, and if nothing detrimental will happen because of it, then why waste time with pointless hoops? Just be friends.
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You're right.
Thank you. You've been quite helpful.
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He can go back to feigning sleep now. But actually, because you can never escape being a little shit -. )
I hope your friendship proves fruitful, Bob-san.
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I'm not Bob.
Besides, you can't prove I'm Bob.
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My mistake.
( He's so full of shit. )
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I wish you neck cramps and back pain.
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Anyway, Mark is aware of my idiosyncracies.
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fixed it
( Jokes? From this cult leader? It's more likely than you think. )
Sure.
So why exactly was "Bob" hesitating? You - I mean, he - don't seem easily put off.
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Maybe I just wasn't very good at explaining the situation ... although you did give me plenty to think about.
But also, it's just who he is.
[ 😮💨 bobby over here sweatin' beneath the LILITH gear. ]
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Why is this one so difficult?
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This is just my guess, but I think ... it's because he is royalty.
And therefore, has certain expectations about people, and how he ought to act around them - or how they ought to act around him.
We don't have such people in our world, so I'm very baffled by his behaviour.
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